Relaxed and curious. Willing to try new things. I have been a widow a long time. This generation seems afraid of commitment. I prefer a relationship before intimacy which is a tall requirement these days. So I'll keep looking. There must be someone out there meant for me. I will check out this site first before I add any pictures to my profile just to be sure this is the right hangout for me. Thats a qwerk of mine, I'm caustious (spelling??) to a fault. But when I'm in I'm all in! I have experienced a lot of things and still I am a low key person. I don't like high anxiety situations. Life is too short to waste on stress. If I stay on this site I will add to my profile. Hope this is a good one! Update: As of 10/13 I am having too many problems with this site. I cant get more than a few choices in search. Even if I put any in the advance search I only get a few choices of some members who were on here hundreds of days ago!? This is a wacky site. Too bad I will have to say goodbye before I ever got to put up my picture. I guess it is for the best. I will give it until this weekend coming.