HELLO, I'm a widow now for 7 years, This is my first at trying a dating site. I'm a little nervous on what to say here, but I'll just start. Most people I think find me to be a sweet person, easily liked and easy going. My nature is to be happy and affectionate. I'm not as outgoing as I would like to be, but I have my moments when I am more so, usually depending on the personality of others. Tho I am normally quiet, it doesn't mean there isn't a lot going on in my mind. I find psychology and philosophy interesting,meaning intellectuals, which should tell you what kind of man I look for. I am creative and talented, and like to think outside the box. Beyond physical attraction that I would hope for both of us, Intelligence is what I mostly look for, one that can help to also broaden mine. Also a companion with a kind and giving heart, who has capacity for understanding with reason. LOL, ok I stop now. 😊,