..... Here is a bit about what I want to find.... I want to find that "joy" that when I think of her...it makes me all warm and fuzzy...and that I could live without her...but don't want to. She likes my spunk...finds me funny...and she is funny...She must be loyal...I want to be all the man she needs...and when the going gets tough we turn for each other for comfort...and the joy!! I don't play games and find myself wanting to find someone and forcing myself to put myself out there. I hate dating....but to find her it will be all worth it!! Sometimes in life, you find a special friend, someone who changes your life just by being part of it. Someone who makes you laugh until you can't stop. Someone who supports and helps make you a stronger person. I am a builder not a destroyer. Making her strong just makes me/us stronger. . This is Forever Friendship and is something my lady will feel as long as she is mine. There are so many things to do when the work day is done and having someone to do them with is better. Chores get done faster and getting out and about is better with someone else. Hand holding in a movie, kissing at unexpected times and sharing laughs when there are hard times. I am looking for a lady who likes to have fun and likes to laugh, as I love to make people smile. I am a man with a lot of friends and still don't have a lady to share my life with. I am looking for a lady who likes to have fun and likes to laugh, as I love to make people laugh. I would like to find a lady that has her life together and knows what she wants from life, I am a hard worker and own a home in Fremont. I have been told I am attractive then again been told I am not. I can be a very sensitive man, along with being a bad boy too. Been told I am the life of the party. I am not looking for a Barbie just a lady who knows how to treat a good man. I always put my lady NUMBER 1. While she is my number ONE nobody and I mean nobody with ever hurt her without going thru me. I also had 2 kids that I raised alone for 16yrs. I am also a big believer in trust, honesty and communication. I enjoy dancing, concerts, beaches, dining just about anything fun as I believe you make your own fun and don't make it anyone's responsibility so I make the best of everything. I am 5’10’’ 175 brownish/gray hair and sky blue eyes. I am retired and ready for FUN. The flowers are just a start to how I will treat my lady