Have a sense of humor, real to himself and with others, knows how to be openminded in and out of the bedroom. Not afraid to be themselves. Local preferred, but open to ALL. Not in the mood for flakes or self centered people. As well as people who think they are entitled, get out and EARN IT, act your age, not your shoe size. You have to kiss a million frogs before you find your prince, a frog told me that once, and I've been kissing frogs ever since but so far no luck yet