I was widowed 6 yrs ago - love & respect ladies, and I am a NON selfish male in all rooms of the residence. In other words Ladies First. Want a companion but not to interrupt either of our family or other activities, but available to each other for special events, good or bad days that need to be talked about or celibate or provide a shoulder to cry on. Father of 3 grown children & they have add 5 grand kids. The baby in one photo is a Great Granddaughter.