However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person, when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself. All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences Babe you know that i also don't want you to think about what Have Happen to you for Past My Love Cause it will Not Make our Love Grow Babe....What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for But you know that am Not searching Cause am Talking with you Right Now that you shouldn't let this Relationship Grow and we Both also have Trust in God Yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk. All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful... even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you. Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth it. This is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust But am Promising you this Now that i wil never Betray or Put a Slap on your Face My Love ... that's the risk... but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy? Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love which i have for you that will follow. For everyone there Is a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life...and i also want you to know that As the lily among thorns, so is my love among the daughters. As the apple tree among the trees of the wood, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down under his shadow with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste."Song of Solomon 2:2,3 and i also want you to know that The key is to be understanding. Nobody can change their personality am seeking for love someone too settle down with