First of all I am married to a woman, but am in a sexless marriage. I have needs, never been with a man but want to try it. I am so tired of being curious, want a man to be gentle with me and satisfy my curiosity. If things go right and you want it to be an ongoing thing, outstanding. Discretion is a must though. I am wanting to try and bottom as they say I guess is the right term, maybe even do more, most likely will want to.